Going by the thousands of people speaking so highly about bondage sex and all the excitement it gives, there must be something about it after all. If you have never tried bondage sex before, chances are that you will not know what kinds of excitements it holds. If done safely and consensually, beginner bondage could be a great way of sexual role-playing. You would do well to try it out once at least with your partner so that you know what you are missing.
Mention the Beginner Bondage Carefully
One of your biggest obstacles would be to get your partner to be willing for bondage role-play. If they are conservative, they might even be appalled or scared stiff by the idea. You do not want to mar your relationship, so broach the subject carefully.
Start out with harmless stuff such as tying their hands with stockings or something simple like that. If you find they are enjoying, you can ask them if they want to try out something kinkier.
Pick your Devices Cautiously
There’s a whole world of beginner bondage sex equipment available on the Internet. You might be tempted to use the kinkiest of them, but take it slowly. Some of these things could be really painful, especially if you are a beginner and you don’t know how to use them correctly. There are devices like nipple clamps and scrotal gags that experts in bondage use. But if you are just starting out, you must steer clear of such devices.
Whatever you buy, let your partner know about it beforehand. The excitement is theirs too; don’t forget that. Read reviews of the devices on the Internet and see what users have to say about them.
Do not cross Lines!
Another thing to do before you begin is to determine how far you would go. Set limits for the activities you are trying out. You could establish some words or gestures that would indicate your partner to stop when things start getting too rough. Also, you must decide in advance who would be the dominant and who would be the submissive partner if you are trying some role-playing bondage sex.
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