Understanding her Fantasies
Men are known to think about sex almost all the time, even fantasize about it. They have a reputation that they will never let an opportunity pass and won’t miss a single sight that comes their way. But, what really needs to be understood here is that women fantasize about sex in almost the same manner as men do.
The differences are quite significant actually. When men fantasize, they prefer “seeing” things that arouse them. But women prefer “preparing a mental image”. Their sex fantasies are more creative than the sex fantasies of men who like the direct approach. In fact, this is why women enjoy foreplay more than men do.
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Women can get aroused even as they talk about something that excites them. But, it does not work that way in men. Men need to have more physical and visual stimuli. However, men should be sensitive to the demands of their women also. They must understand that women are driven by other things than they are. This is how to keep a sexual relationship working. These are some things that you can use:-
1. Say things to her that will make her happy. Women like to hear good things about themselves; it actually turns them on. If you tell them that she is driving you nuts, the whole sexual experience will improve several times over.
2. Gift your woman a more extensive foreplay. Men don’t lay much stock by this preliminary activity, but it is important that you participate in it to keep your woman happy. This can include fondling and caressing her, kissing her and playing with her body in other ways.
3. Don’t leave any part of her body un caressed or unkissed.
4. One great way of getting her aroused is to stimulate her orally before you expect her to do the same to you. This can make her go berserk.
5. Also, you have to bear in mind that the woman is always kept happy. She might enjoy the single things in life such as a good meal, holding hands while eating and so on.
Now, you might be thinking what all this has to do with the fantasies she harbours. But, you must realize that most women won’t speak upfront about the fantasies that they have. You have to make her trust you completely. When she does that, she will slowly open out to you.
If the woman begins to realize that you really care for her, she will come willingly in your arms. She will not speak of her fantasies right away, but as she begins to trust in you more and more, she will begin opening up to you.
The most interesting thing is when you and her have some fantasies about the same thing. If that happens, you could broach the subject about your fantasies and a lot more can emerge.
Your fantasies mean a lot to you. The same applies for your woman too. You should not leave her wanting when you want yourself to be satiated in every manner.
Keep an open line of conversation and take good care of your woman. When she feels that you are trustworthy, she will voluntarily start speaking of her fetishes and fantasies to you.
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