Whether it is true or not that women will only try anal sex twice, apparently once to see what the fuss is about and a second time to see if it still hurts as much. What is true is that you will either love it or hate it. I loved my first experience at anal sex, but unfortunately I was so carried away by the moment that I forgot to use any lube. I was OK, as my pussy was so wet, I didn’t actually feel any pain. This is however not advisable behavior and lube should always be used.
I know my life isn’t over and the chance may come my way again, but I only ever had anal sex with my ex hubby, probably because for me, this is a very intimate act.
One boyfriend I had was really into anal and I have no idea why I said no, he was sticking his big brown cock into just about every other orifice in my body – I guess I just didn’t feel comfortable enough with him to get that intimate. Shit is a whole other story and not really something you want to smear all over the cock of someone you hardly know.
Both the boyfriend who asked me to have anal sex were boys with big cocks too, and I really believe I was chicken to take that steps, lube or no lube. I do like a boy with a big dick, and my ex was a pretty small man, so I really do believe that there is a fear factor involved in taking that step to having anal sex.
Emotionally there is nothing wrong with being afraid of having anal sex especially if you practice with an I Plug. There is nothing wrong with being afraid of having any kind of sex in fact. Although remember Freud said the only bad sex is no sex. But you should never allow anyone to coerce you into having anal or any kind of sex if you don’t want it. This is just not right!
My First Experience At Anal Sex – Apparently We Will all Try it at Least Twice
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