My First Experience At Anal Sex – Apparently We Will all Try it at Least Twice

Whether it is true or not that women will only try anal sex twice, apparently once to see what the fuss is about and a second time to see if it still hurts as much. What is true is that you will either love it or hate it. I loved my first experience at anal sex, but unfortunately I was so carried away by the moment that I forgot to use any lube. I was OK, as my pussy was so wet, I didn’t actually feel any pain. This is however not advisable behavior and lube should always be used.

Unfortunately I have never dared to have anal sex again, and only ever went this far with my ex husband. That is just me, it is an intimate experience for me and not something I gaily share with any and every lover.

Not for the lack of anyone asking me, I have had a couple of boyfriends who have wanted to delve into the darkest area of my nether regions. Quite simply because I have said no, but life isn’t over when anal sex is over, just as life isn’t over if you don’t have sex. I have weird ideas about my pooper being my business and no-one else’s.

Both the boyfriend who asked me to have anal sex were boys with big cocks too, and I really believe I was chicken to take that steps, lube or no lube. I do like a boy with a big dick, and my ex was a pretty small man, so I really do believe that there is a fear factor involved in taking that step to having anal sex.

There is not one thing with being afraid to have any kind of sex that makes you feel uncomfortable, and there is nothing wrong with saying no; just as there is absolutely nothing wrong with having anal sex althoug a little practise with an I Plug may improve your experience. The only wrong thing is when someone forces or tries to coerce you into doing something you don’t want to do. Some people fit sexually together, others don’t and this is a fact of life, rather say no and don’t risk fitting a square peg into a round hole.