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How to Overcome Insecurity with your lady.
It never ceases to amaze me how insecure a woman is about her body. She can have the best set of breasts on the face of the earth and she will still be concerned if her ankles are fat. This has always pissed me off. I guess because I don’t understand it. I don’t understand how a woman can be so obsessive about her body. The funny part is, I don’t think most men care. I don’t think most men care if there is stretch marks on her stomach. Most men won’t even look, but women are obsessed. You need to understand this about your woman and try to help her. It will eat her alive if you tell her that her that her nose makes her look like Porky the Pig. If you love your woman, then you want to have the most stable relationship possible. If it is unstable, chances are you won’t be getting laid.
Do you want to make her feel better about her ass. Most women are insecure about their asses this is not a Bedroom Secrets. You would think by how insecure they are by it, that the sun rises and sets on it. I’ve never understood this, but like most things with women I have come to terms with it. There are ways that you can help to make her feel better
Ask your lady to lay down and start by massaging her shoulders and back and then make your way down to her ass. While you are doing it, tell her how nice it is. Tell her how aroused it makes you to touch her ass. Usually during this, I will insert a few fingers into her vagina. If she says anything, tell her that you got too horny touching her ass.
Lying sometimes to your lady about her cellulite by acting as if you’ve never noticed any, can sometimes help. Just don’t act too stupid, as she will know you are lying. It is the stuff on her body that looks like cottage cheese. If she i! s uncomfortable about this, tell her how much you like to kiss her thighs before you have oral sex.
Alot of women have a spare tire around their stomach, don’t make her fret over it. Tell her to lie down and that you would like to kiss and lick her tummy as this makes you horny when you are kissing her down there. She will eat this up.
Ask your lady why she turns out the lights before she comes to bed for sex. Tell her that you like to look at her beautiful body and to watch her have an orgasm. As this makes you very excited. Try to emphasize that you want to see her beautiful body.
No person is perfect. We would all wish that our women were perfect little love machines, but they aren’t. Even the women on television aren’t perfect. This is probably why you don’t see most of them totally nude. Underneath it all, there is a imperfection some where.
Point out to you lady that you have imperfections as well and that nobody is perfect. Ask her if she would like to know all your imperfections, point them out to her, go in detail if you have to.
I’m not saying you should break down and become manic when you tell her this. Use common sense. Don’t go out of your way to cry or act depressed. She will see this coming a mile away. Instead, be honest and open about it. Tell her that one leg is bigger than the other or whatever your problem is.
You need to listen to your lady and ask her what she thinks her faults are,It is important that you understand how your woman views herself. , Tell her what you feel are her strong points. Does she have a nice ass? Does she have nice legs? Tell her about it!
Do you want earth shattering orgasms that send you to orbit and back?The best sex occurs when two people feel comfortable with themselves. If she feels comfortable around you, she will be more active in bed. That is your incentive to help her become comfortable with herself.
A women cant perform well when she has these insecurities about herself. It would be like being a painter that needed a straight line in his work but was too uptight to perform it.I think of the issue about making your lover comfortable like this. She can’t perform if she doesn’t feel comfortable naked around you.
If she doesn’t feel comfortable after all that you have told her and done with her. I would suggest that you try breathing excesses. You can easily find directions for these on the net. These are a great way to relax and relieve stress as well. Both of you should do this together.
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