The art of introducing sex toys into your relationship should be done with loving care and at a pace that your partner feels comfortable with as well.
Rushing into this extra love making toys will see you partner shy away from it. Follow the rules of slow seduction and you may get the results you are after.
Couples in a new relationship have the advantage of introducing sex toys as part of their love making. New partners are more open to suggestions as they are still getting familiar with you. Couples in a long term relationship may have other problems as the sex toys may be a very new idea to both of you.
Should you be the partner interested in introducing sex toys into your relationship, you must keep in mind that a surprise introduction may give your partner quite a fright. Rather be patient and very attentive about how you breach the subject in bed. Keep the idea of toys light hearted and fun.
At your next sexual encounter, you can move the attention to her vaginal area by using the same pen or maybe introduce a second familiar object. Have fun with this object and never let your partner feel uncomfortable.
Move on to a new object during your next love session, but this time focus on her virgina, tickling and stimulating her with the object. Her enjoyment now takes the most attention and care as you want her to thoroughly enjoy the strangeness of what you are doing.
Should all you efforts still get a negative response from your partner, it maybe time to give it up. Avoid frustration building up in the relationship by talking openly about your needs for sex toys.
In some relationships one of the partners can not get into the sex toys and may cause the other partner to feel uncomfortable. Have a good talk about the need for toys at this stage and maybe reach an agreement where one of you will use the toys on themselves only. Be kind and gentle and respect the whishes of your partner.
The final resort will be to use the sex toys in your private moments, but do share this information with your partner as they may feel left out.
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