The art of introducing sex toys into your relationship should be done with loving care and at a pace that your partner feels comfortable with as well.
Pay attention to the signals from you partner as they will show you when to move faster with the process or maybe they need a slower approach to give them time to get used to the idea.
Couples that are in a new relationship may discuss sex toys openly and frankly as they are still learning what the partners enjoy and want to experiment with. In other cases the couple may be together for years and never used any toys during lovemaking, causing a bit of uncertainty with both on the subject.
Should you be the partner interested in introducing sex toys into your relationship, you must keep in mind that a surprise introduction may give your partner quite a fright. Rather be patient and very attentive about how you breach the subject in bed. Keep the idea of toys light hearted and fun.
At your next sexual encounter, you can move the attention to her vaginal area by using the same pen or maybe introduce a second familiar object. Have fun with this object and never let your partner feel uncomfortable.
After a while you will be able to sense if your partner is open for more unfamiliar sex toys. This is a good time to introduce them to the world of adult shops where you can discover what may work for you both. Keep this shopping adventurous and fun by making it part of the seduction process. On your first visit, buy a single item that is simple to use.
Should all you efforts still get a negative response from your partner, it maybe time to give it up. Avoid frustration building up in the relationship by talking openly about your needs for sex toys.
In some relationships one of the partners can not get into the sex toys and may cause the other partner to feel uncomfortable. Have a good talk about the need for toys at this stage and maybe reach an agreement where one of you will use the toys on themselves only. Be kind and gentle and respect the whishes of your partner.
Sex toys may be banned from your bed for good and you will have to use it when you are alone. Do not keep this a secret as it will cause your partner to feel threatened and insecure.
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