How Male Insecurity Causes Relationships To Fail

by admin on July 23, 2009

This lady is the girl of your dreams. She’s smart and pretty and all your friends envy you. You just know they are wondering what in the world she sees in you. Maybe you’re wondering the same thing. You know she’s going to leave you, you just don’t know when. When other guys give her the eye, you think she may be looking them over.

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You start insisting she spend all her time with you. You get angry when she talks to the clerk at the checkout counter. If she isn’t next to you, you call her on the phone and get angry if she doesn’t answer immediately. If she says she’s spending time with her girlfriends, you spy on her. Maybe you accuse her of cheating on you. You know your behaviour is a little crazy, but you just can’t seem to stop. You may realize that you are driving your beautiful girlfriend a way, but that little voice in your head keeps whispering that she’s too good for you.



Instead of recognizing that your problems are caused by your own insecurity, you blame her for everything that’s wrong in your life. You try to control her, and when you can’t, you lash out at her. You give her gifts thinking maybe she’ll stay if you give her enough things. You monopolize her time and don’t let her see her friends and family. Everyone thinks you’re nuts and she should get away from you. Think about this, i f she treated you the way that you treat her would you want to stay?

It could be that another girl betrayed you, or even more than one. It could be that your actions drove them away just like you are driving this girl away. There can be many reasons you are insecure, but you have to recognize the problem and take charge of your life.

Some men are self conscious about the size of their penis. That really doesn’t have to be an issue. Men worry about size a lot more than women do. If you are considerate and respectful with women when you make love, it makes you a bette r lover in their eyes than a big penis would.

You’re aren’t rich. Not many people are. If the only thing people love about you is your money, you need to make some changes. Start believing that you are worth loving. Love yourself. Having some faith in yourself will help you to have faith in others.

If you are unhappy with aspects of you life, change them. Go to a gym to get that buff body. Take some courses so you can land a better job. Take care of yourself first. Find a hobby that you really enjoy and that doesn’t require you girlfriend’s constant company.

When you feel confident in yourself it shows and it draws people to you. Let go of your insecurities and jealousy and you will be a better person and a better mate.

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