How Male Insecurity Causes Relationships To Fail

by admin on July 23, 2009

So your girlfriend is a total fox and all your friends think you are one lucky guy. When you’re with her you can see other men checking her out. You put your arm around her and hold her close to let everyone know a"She’s mine". when you catch a guy staring at her, you stare him down.

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You don’t want to lose her so you start monopolizing her time. You don’t want her to spend time with her girlfriends or family, because maybe that’s just an excuse. Maybe she’s seeing someone else. You spy on her and check out her cell phone in case she’s been calling other guys. You know you’re a little bit crazy, but it’s her fault. The more you try to control her life, the more distant she seems to be. Maybe you even suspect that you’re the one who’s driving her away, but you can’t seem to stop.



Try taking a look at your behaviour. This isn’t about her, it’s about you and your own insecurities. You don’t think you deserve your girlfriend and you are your own worst enemy. What if she was following you around and spying on you? What if she accused you of cheating every time you said hello to another woman? Wouldn’t you feel trapped? Instead of worrying about her, take a look at the reasons you are behaving this way. Why do you feel that she really couldn’t want you? If she didn’t want you, she would have chosen someone else.

Stop and think about why you are sabotaging your relationships. Resolve to feel better about yourself and do what you need to do to improve yourself. Stop blaming your girlfriend for all the problems in your relationship and man up.

Some men are self conscious about the size of their penis. That really doesn’t have to be an issue. Men worry about size a lot more than women do. If you are considerate and respectful with women when you make love, it makes you a bette r lover in their eyes than a big penis would.

Many men worry that they don’t have enough money to keep a woman happy. Relationships aren’t about how much money you have., they are about who you are. Stop worrying about spending a lot of money on your girlfriend. I money is a deciding factor for her, she’s not go od enough for you.

If you want to be loved and esteemed, start by loving yourself. Treat your girlfriend with the same respect you want her to show for you. If your girlfriend doesn’t respect you, maybe you need, and deserve, a new girlfriend

If you want to keep your girlfriend, give her some breathing space and work on your issues. If you want a better body, join a gym. If you want a better job, enroll in a training course. Improving yourself will lead to a better self image and a better relationship.

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