Beginner Bondage causes Many people to fantasize about being controlling or about being controlled, and (in most cases) this is a healthy fantasy. While you can always do this in daily life the bedroom is a good place to live out those desires this is Beginner Bondage.

People who wish to be in control are usually referred to as the dominant, or the Dom, for short. People who wish to be controlled are called the submissive, or sub. Most people chose to be one or the other, but sometimes you may wish to experiment to see which you prefer, or you can change from Dom to Sub depending on your mood.

Beginner Bondage

The fist thing about Beginner Bondage is to have a partner to share your fantasy. This person must be someone you trust fully whether you are Dom or the Sub. I recommend playing these games with a long time partner, not a one-time stand. Anything you do with someone you do not know may get out of hand. Both parts in the dynamic have a big responsibility for the safety and well being of the other, because while it may seem that the Dom in total control, in reality the Sub has just as much power.

As the Dom in Beginner Bondage it is your responsibility to control the amount and type of stimulation the Sub receives. As the Sub you must tell your Dom when things becomes too intense or if the situation becomes uncomfortable in any way. If there is not enough communication between the Dom and the Sub there is a good chance of someone being physically or emotionally hurt.

I recommend you make a code word so that the Dom knows when the Sub really needs to stop verses when the Sub in really in the moment. Code word should be easy to remember in case things go to far, but something you might not say during play. Depending on the situation your code word may even just a simple “Ouch, damn it that hurts.”

There are a few things most commonly associated with Beginner Bondage: tying someone up, spanking, teasing, and obedience training. All of these can come in a wide variety and can be used in any combination or separately.

Bondage

When tying someone be sure that the ties do not cut off circulation or force the Sub into an uncomfortable position. The point of bondage for a Sub is to be able to let go not to be hurt. Also tight or uncomfortable bond can lead to strained or pulled muscles and joints.

There is such a wide range of things to bind people with when doing Beginner Bondage, and ways of doing it that the only way to cover them all would be a book (one about the size of a phone book) in fact there are numerous books about the subject. Lets just go with a few of the basics. For the actual bonds you can use just about any thing scarves, neck ties, rope, string, strips of cloth, or hand cuffs to name a few.

Scarves ECT.

Scarves, neckties, and strips of cloth are a nice way to start, you can get them in ever material know to man. They are easy to find and you may have some around the house already or buy some just for play. For inexpensive scarves and neck ties you can use just for play try the local thrift store. (The items there may not match the bedroom, but if you’re really worried about it you probably aren’t having any fun any way.)

Ropes ECT For Beginner Bondage

Ropes and string or twine, are a little more intense then scarves. For one it is usually hard to get out of in a hurry, also some types of rope will dig into the skin and cut off circulation more easily than scarves. Before bring ropes into the bedroom try them out ahead of time. Nothing kills the mood like having to stop repeatedly because the Subs arms are numb.

Hand Cuffs

I do NOT recommend handcuffs for beginners as they can be to intimidating for novices. If you are going to use them you will mostly want to the furry kind, as they will not leave bruises like the metal one will. You can get them at a store if you don’t want to go to one (or there is not a store that has bondage supplies near you) For Your Pleasure sells them (along with a lot of other things to spice up your bedroom).

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Teasing and Beginner Bondage

Once the Sub is bond the fun can began. The Dom can blindfold the Sub or not and began to tease or stoke the Sub. You can use a feather or your hands to stimulate the Sub, just be creative. Your can use warming lotions, or edibles that you can lick off. The point of teasing is to get the Sub as close to orgasm as possible, so it is important to read the Subs body langue. At some point the Sub should be allowed to orgasm, how and when should be at the Dom’s discretion.

Spanking

There are as many ways to spank, as there are to tie some one up. You can use your hand, the back of a hair bush, a strap, a belt, a fly swatter, a riding crop, or just about anything you can think of. Just be sure that you are not using anything with a point or a sharp edge as you may cut the Sub. With spanking make sure that if the Sub is bond, that there is enough play in the bonds that the sub can brace them self. (I had a friend once that broke her arm when her Dom tied her up and spanked her, when the first blow came she lost her balance and fell. That was not a fun trip to the ER.)

Spanking is where communication and your code word come in. Subs no matter how much your Dom is enjoying spanking you if it is too intense you need to tell them immediately! This should be as fun for you as it is for them. Doms if you get the scene that your Sub is indomitable stop what you are doing to make sure that they are okay.

Obedience training

Obedience training usually is not for beginners. It is where the Dom trains the Sub to do tasks on command. Doms use actual bondage, teasing, and spanking as a system of reward and punishment. Doms have Sub do anything from common household chores to having Subs play games for the Doms amusement. Doms may even have Subs perform for his or her friend or against other Subs. Obedience training may be your goal as the Dom or the Sub but be sure that you have mastered and are comfortable with the basics.

A good Dom will never force a Sub to do something the Sub is uncomfortable doing, or is harmful. A good Sub will let their Dom know what they like and dislike, and will not let the Dom coax them unto an unsafe situation.

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She was sitting across from me, and not saying anything. I gave her a slight nod, and she signed and stamped all of the paperwork. I knew from the minute I walked into the bank that I would have no problem getting the loan. The bank manager was my bondage slave, and she would do whatever I tell her.

I met her only a week ago. But every since the first day we have been very passionate for each other. I remember carrying her to my dungeon. She was barely conscious at that time from the drug I had given her. I gently put her naked body on my steel table, and placed her hands and feet in the cuffs.

The drug was wearing off because her eyes were slightly open now. This meant that the fun was about to start. I stood next to her, and said "Close your eyes, bitch." It didn’t take her long to obey my command. I got my favorite whip and pressed the handle against her neck. Goosebumps ran through her skin as I brought the handle downwards.

After a short while I decided to spice things up a bit, and cracked the whip very close to her ear. Pure instinct made her open her eyes and look at me. I used the whip’s handle to slap her hard. "You will not open your eyes unless I tell you to, cunt. Now keep them closed." A minute later, I released her feet from the cuffs and tied them to her hands.

I got a dildo and started playing with her wet pussy. She arched her back and her breathing became very heavy. I knew she wanted me inside of her, but wasn’t going to give her that pleasure yet. She held her breath as I slowly guided the dildo towards her crack. I thrust it inside her ass hole while enjoying her screams.

I held a white gold necklace in front of her and commended her to open her eyes. "Do you know what this signifies, bitch?" She opened her eyes and replied, "Yes, Master." She lifted her head towards me, so I can put the necklace on. "I now own you, and the only reason you exist is to satisfy all my desires." I actually go find many bondage partners online.

I have always had a bit of a thing for a good spanking, in fact when I was a little girl I used to get naughtier and naughtier, until I would apparently step up to my father and say, “daddy, I think the time’s ready for a spanking” much to his shock and surprise

How was I to know that there would be a day that my spanking fetish turned into a money maker? Only this time the tables were turned a little.

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Because I enjoyed being spanked and started getting into handcuffs and bondage, it was completely natural for me to progress into a BDSM lifestyle. As I became introduced to new and more exquisite torture I became more deeply entrenched in the mysteries of this beautiful art form.

Sam – my dom and I met quite by accident, as I said, at a normal online social networking site for daters. He was 62, I was 30 and at first I thought Yuk, and old guy, but soon I learned, the more experienced a man, the better. He approached me and at first I was reluctant to meet, however he was intelligent and nice and I was curious.

He had recently lost his collared submissive when she moved overseas and was looking for someone new to collar. I didn’t fancy this idea at first, but eventually, I thought, “what’s the harm in just meeting?”

So I met Sam and we chatted for a while, arranging to meet he was interesting and had some really funny stories to tell like when he was selling his house and his BDSM equipment was in a special room. He explained to prospective buyers that his suspension frame was a special frame he had built for his specific back problem.

It didn’t take long for me to become integrated into the BDSM community in which I felt I belonged. Sam was a great dom and I soon became interested in other aspects of BDSM. Started collecting my own gear and watch and learned. I soon realized that I was not only a submissive.

Pretty soon I made my on circle of friends, a community outside of Sam’s, most of who I met on the internet. I have to admit that Sam is the only person I have ever trusted enough to bind me, but soon the people in my community were asking me to teach them. I thought why not, I have all the equipment?

Before long I had some regulars and they were offering to pay me to spank them too, a bit like and ambidextrous writer I found I enjoyed being dominant as well as submissive. Even though I am a bit of a BDSM mongrel, I was soon making money from this and I still shake my head and wonder about the day my spanking fetish turned into a money maker for me.

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In my final year of high-school, at 18 years old, something happened that changed my sexual tastes for ever. The National School Board used to send the school nurse out to all boys schools about every six months. This was done to check we weren’t being abused, there were no epidemics and we were all fit and healthy.

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We were required to strip down to your gym shorts and underpants on the morning of her long expected arrival and wait. Giggling and punching each other with nerves, we lined up and waited for the examination. I was (still am) a pretty boy, big blue eyes, blond curly hair and a surfers tan. Much more like a teenage girl really.

We spent most of the morning queuing and bored as heck. The other boys thought they were getting the morning off lessons, then came my turn to enter the office.

It looked like a normal nurse’s office, desk, two chairs, medicine cabinet and examination table But what caught my eye, was a cane in the corner which oozed discipline. This sent a message out to my bored brain.

The Nurse was middle aged, and she had the biggest tits I have ever seen. They were virtually bursting out through her tight uniform, it was almost pornographic; they strained and pulsed against the white fabric with a life of their own. My imagination caught hold and I could see them exposed, hanging and completely naked, available for me to squeeze and suck. My cock grew as hard as a drill-bit.

She was immediately suspicious, and she just put her hands inside my shorts and underpants to feel me. “Just making sure you’re a boy, pretty” she whispered gently in my ear. She was reading my health records at the time and when she felt what was happening down there she lifted her spectacles, raised her brow, and looked pissed off.

She told me I was a very bad boy and pulled my pants down around my ankles, twisting them in a knot and hobbling my ankles, effectively restraining me. Bending me over the exam table, she took hold of the cane and beat the crap out of my ass. I got so excited I had to stop myself from cumming, no easy feat at 18.

When she was finished, she told me to dress and continued the examination. All the time with a severe look on her face Just before she let me out of the office, she put her hand in my pants again “just making sure you’re a boy sweetie”; she again whispered in my ear.

The school nurse set alight my taste for bondage, I was changed

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Jason wasn’t too pleased with himself right now. He had allowed himself to be caught staring at his student’s boobs. The student herself had caught him in the act. He was feeling uncomfortable about even looking at Denise right now. But he was a teacher and he had to meet them personally today because he had to give them their grades.

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When class got over, Jason knew there was no escape. He had to meet each student. He called them over to his room, one by one, to take their grades. He stalled on calling Denise as much as possible. But when he finished everyone else’s grade s, he knew he could stall no more. He had to call Denise. What really complicated the situation was that she had got an F.

She came, bouncing her big boobs – the same which he was staring. Forgetting everything that just happened, he again shot a glance in their direction. She saw the F on her card and almost immediately burst into tears. “No, please, please, please pass me. I’ll do anything for you, I promise,” she cried, all the time heaving those breasts of hers.

“Denise, you have failed,” Jason spelled it out. “I can’t pass you.” But then Denise said something that really grabbed Jason’s attention. “Oh, we know there are things you want but can’t have. I can give them to you,” she said, and now she was actually bobbing her boobs.

There was a slight stir in Jason’s pants at those words. He couldn’t control the urge now. “All right,” he said, “It seems you know what I want, but not quite.” Then a sudden change came over him. “I want to be your pussy,” he whispered to her. She gave out a chuckle.

Half a day has passed now. It is getting to be cold and Jason is feeling it all the more because he is completely naked. The steel clamps on his nipples are now biting coldly along with the pain. He is a very humiliating position as well – his hands are passed through his legs and he is holding his ears. His cock never stopped being erect from the time he submitted. It is painfully tied with some rope that has its other end tied around a hook on the floor. A dildo is training his asshole.

She was sitting right there, checking out his ass. He could see her upside down. She had put on a leather dominatrix dress which was open at the breasts. This was what Jason wanted but couldn’t get them till his mistress ordered he could. The whip in her hand intimidated him. Every few minutes, she gave his back and ass a sound whipping.

Now she came closer to him. It was whipping time. Jason yowled in pain. Though he controlled, he couldn’t stop the piss from flowing out of his cock onto the floor. She released him, and made him lie on the piss. She undressed, and sat right on his face. His cunt was open on his nose and mouth. She ordered him to give her some of his tongue.

Then she reached out with her mouth and took his cock in. He felt this was exactly was paradise must be like. Her breasts were brushing against his chest. He let go off his cum in her mouth. She had an orgasm right there, on his face, as well.

Denise passed the exam. In fact, she doesn’t worry about some of her forthcoming exams as well, because she’s got her slave Jason bent over in her dungeon with a huge dildo buried deep in his ass, all tied up.

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She looked up at me and, in a very commanding tone, said “sit down, and keep me company then”. I immediately sat down, transfixed by her stare. I started making small talk with her when she grabbed my thigh. Not only did it catch me by surprise, it turned me on.

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She answered my question and made no mention of what just happened. I asked her where she worked and her hand crept further up my thigh until it was near my penis. She looked at me and sucked her maraschino cherry. At the same time, she took my cock in her hands and stroked it up and down.

She asked me if I wanted to go to her place and I managed a nod. She played with my dick in the cab while I drowned my fingers in her wetness. There was a certain urgency with which she responded to my kisses.

When we got to her place, she immediately instructed me to take my clothes off and to close my eyes. She then tied a blindfold around my eyes. However this was not the end of my surprise. She started kissing my hand and then very slowly, handcuffed them to the bed post.

She asked me if I trusted her, and if I wanted her. The answer to the second question was definitely yes, so I went along. I felt a slight thrill at the prospect of what was to come next.

She wrapped my hard dick with an ice cold washcloth, and I lost it. Then, when I had deflated, she put a metal ring around my penis. I wanted to protest, but she immediately shushed me by letting me suck her fingers. They were covered with her wetness and it tasted sweet.

I instantly went hard again but this time, the metal ring stopped my swelling. I couldn’t stop though, and the pain was driving me crazy. All of a sudden she gets on top of me and impales herself on my dick. Never before had I experienced such pain and such pleasure at the same time.

I could feel myself coming to an orgasm. The only problem was that the cock ring wouldn’t let me have one. Her screams and moans get louder and louder, and then she starts writhing around on my dick. She had her orgasm. That makes one of us.

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I work as a secretary to my boss. It was one of those places where you just do your job and go home. There weren’t many people in the establishment either. Among my various jobs, I have to check the business emails and send the important ones to my boss’ personal email id. It is an easy job, I am loving it.

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In the early days, this desk job was difficult for me. This was not me. I have a completely different life outside. In the evenings, people call me Lady Tyranna. I love being with my slaves more than at this desk. Yes, you got it right. I am a dominatrix.

It was a particularly boring day at the job when I decided to go through some of my more colorful personal email. I had a desk and computer to my own in a discreet corner of the office so that was possible. I logged in to my Lady Tyranna id and checked the email. Among the dozens of emails I had got the last night was one from Cole. It was a particularly short one – “Am still punished, Lady Tyranna. Waiting for evening when you will come untie me. – Your slave, Cole”

I smiled. Thinking of how I had stripped and tied him nude on the computer chair made me wet. I composed a reply – “Your tyrant will be back. Stay as you are, bitch. – Lady T” And I sent it. And then suddenly it dawned on me. There was a shadow over my shoulder. It was him – my boss.

Ten minutes later he called me in. I was worried, but then I thought what he has got to do with my personal life. I went in.

The surprising thing was that he didn’t tell me anything apart from routine work. I thought he was done and I was moving out, when he said, “I like it too.” I didn’t get it at first. Then, he lifted his shirt sleeves up. What I saw underneath made me understand what he meant. I saw red marks on his wrists.

Today, our equation has changed. I am the boss, he is my slave. I am Lady T for him also. Even right now, as I am writing this from his computer in his room, he is down there on the floor – without a stitch on his body and his wrists and ankles tied together. His back is red where he just got the whip. He is eying warily at the huge strap-on on the desk. Everything is set – his time for punishment is now.

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Going by the thousands of people speaking so highly about bondage sex and all the excitement it gives, there must be something about it after all. If you have never tried bondage sex before, chances are that you will not know what kinds of excitements it holds. If done safely and consensually, bondage sex could be a great way of sexual role-playing. You would do well to try it out once at least with your partner so that you know what you are missing.

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Mention the Subject Carefully

One of your biggest obstacles would be to get your partner to be willing for bondage role-play. If they are conservative, they might even be appalled or scared stiff by the idea. You do not want to mar your relationship, so broach the subject carefully.

When into your normal sexual sessions with them, you could introduce some innocuous elements of bondage sex to begin with. Tie them up with lace or stockings and see if they get more aroused. If they do, you might try pushing the bar a little further.

Select the Equipment Carefully

There are many equipments and devices to help you with your sexual bondage games. Just take a look at the online stores and you will see. But be careful of what you buy. There are some real hardcore devices out there. Things like clamps for the balls and the ni! pples may turn you on infinitely but you must know that they can be painful and must not be used by beginners.

Do remember the basic ethics of asking your partner about using any bondage device on them. Check out the Internet, especially the blogs, and you will find reviews on what equipment other people are using.

Do not cross Lines!

Sexual bondage role-play becomes safe only if everyone involved knows how far they can go. You must establish roles with your partner – who would be the dominant and who would be the submissive partner? You must also set the right limits. Use of some code words that the sub! missive partner can use to make the dominant understand that things are going far is a good idea.

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When I was a lot younger I loved the song that Devo had called “Whip It, Whip It Good”. Being in my late teens I thought that it was about masturbation, now that I am older I think that it was about BDSM, or is it that I am relating it to each stage of my life.

She is a woman of contrasts, she is a regular church goer, but she loves to wear short skirts and see-through tops. She looks like butter wouldn’t melt in her mouth, but she loves it when I cum in her mouth.

She is only 4"10 and very thin, but she is tough as nails. Being a Filipina she has a temper, and when it flairs neither of us take a backward step. We actually fight. I have become to call this foreplay because after, especially if it is a violent fight, we fuck like animals to make it up to each other.

One night our foreplay became extended and she got very hot and wet. While I was licking her pussy she said in a low growl, “bite my cunt”. So I gave it a little nip, she wanted more and told me to bite her harder. It got so hot that she ended up with teeth marks on her cunt lips and I had deep scratches on my back and her teeth imprint on my cock and balls.

This opened up a whole new dimension to our relationship. After the bruises had subsided I opened the subject with her, and discovered that she had this urge even before I met her, but she didn’t have the courage to act out her urges until she met me.

Her favourite whip is the Fantasy Teaser Rubber Whip, it has very thin strands of rubber, and when it is used properly it leaves beautiful thin red marks on her light brown skin. Not only does she like her back and ass whipped, she spreads her ass cheeks so that I can actually whip her! asshole.

When she spreads her ass cheeks for the whip, I know that I am going to get to fuck her in her ass later, or if she rolls over and tells me to whip her cunt that is what I am going to fuck. Sometimes I baulk at whipping her cunt because it makes her so wet that it is like dipping my cock in the ocean.

For this reason I went out and bought the biggest dildo the Love Shop had. Now when she wants her cunt whipped I fuck her with the dildo while I slip my cock in her ass. This good Catholic girl is a real cum slut in the bedroom.

That night I whipped her back and ass with the flogger, being careful not to draw blood, I whipped her cunt with the Fantasy Teaser, she actually had an orgasm while I was giving her cunt the treatment that she needed. After her beating I fucked her, she has never cum so quickly before, proving that she really does love the presents that I bought for her.

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