Say goodbye to ordinary, everyday lovemaking. This wonderful 72 step guide will show you how to make the most of your efforts and how to get the best rewards!
Start At The Beginning
1. The colors you choose to surround yourself with during your lovemaking can have more of an impact than you could possibly imagine. Red is the universal color of passion, and always a good color of choice.
2. A research survey done by Masters and Johnson has shown that the outer areas of a woman’s vagina is the highest erogenous zones on her body, so teasing and tasting this area is sure to work up both her and you.
3. Don’t become complacent about the location your lovemaking takes place in, variety really is the spice of life. Try the kitchen table or the kitchen bench. Not only will you find your lovemaking more intense, it may seem like a whole new experience.
4. Sexual intercourse in water is an intense experience and one that should not be missed. This can be achieved anywhere, a bathtub, pool or spa. You have seen the scenes in the movies, now it is your turn.
5. Oral sex is a great way to explore your partner and will get him highly aroused. It is always good to have the favor returned as well. If you are looking for that little bit extra, you can try the vibrating toys that attach to your tongue.
6. The whole process of sex doesn’t have to be just about the intercourse. It can also be a lot of fun and you can learn a lot more about your partner if you involve things like games. There are a lot of great adult board games out there, or just a fun little game of strip poker would do.
7. The most common complaint from women is that they don’t get to achieve orgasm most of the time. There is a position that may help her get to the pinnacle of passion. Try placing a pillow under her buttocks, this raises the vagina to a better position and helps aid in the penis to clitoris contact.
8. Sick of housework? why not make it fun, put your washing machine to much better use! Have your man sit upon the working machine then straddle him. The vibrations coming off the machine and through your man will make this one hot experience.
9. Make sure you put the washing machine on a long wash cycle. You make find it helps to have something heavy in the wash cycle, such as towels as they will cause the machine to move more than it would if empty.
10. If you regularly use a vibrator or other sex toys, do not be afraid to let your partner know. You want to be sure that you both get the maximum pleasure from your experience and if a vibe gets you off then that is what you should use. You will find that your partner is just as excited about it as you are.
11. The most important thing is communication. If neither of you vocalise what turns you on, how will you ever know how to please each other? Ask her what she likes, and make sure you tell her what you like. Always let her know how sexy you think she is, if you let her know this then she will feel and act like the sex bomb you know she is.
12. An incredibly important part of foreplay is masturbation. This helps your lady’s body to prepare for the act of intercourse, it also gets her incredibly horny. This can be done with either your fingers or a vibrator or dildo.
13. The smell of your man is more exciting than you would think. During foreplay pheromones are released and can be quite arousing. Learn the smells of your man from head to toe. Just the act of you traveling up and down his body will have an effect.
14. Did you know that what a man eats can effect the taste of his sperm? If you want a more pleasant taste, get him to consume things with lemon, cardamon, peppermint or cinnamon in them.
15. Make sure neither yourself or your partner eat strong smelling foods like onions or garlic otherwise your may find yourself or him put off by the odour.
16. Onions and garlic can also effect the taste of your sperm, even if you ate them days ago. The same is also true for foods like asparagus, curry and chilli.
17. Sex outdoors is always a thrilling experience. Be mindful of the laws though as this act is always frowned upon, which makes it even more exciting. If you are driving home late at night and there is no-one around, how about pulling over the car and having a quickie?
18. Do you have trouble getting your man’s attention when you want it? Is he often too busy to make time for you? How about this nifty trick to get his attention. Go towards him on your knees and with your hands behind your back, start licking his crotch through his pants. He won’t be able to resist for long.
The Right Sex Position Means a Lot
19. The most common position is the missionary position. This is a comfortable position for both of you and also allows for kissing.
20. Another reason the missionary position is good is that it enables you to see your partners facial expressions, you will know just how much she is enjoying herself.
21. Close body contact can be highly arousing, try laying fully on top of a woman without penetrating her. You will both feel the sensations of each others bodies.
22. Be the one on top, take charge of your lovemaking and ride your man. You will feel empowered doing this and it puts you in charge of the speed of things.
23. If you like anal sex or just want to do something a little different, try doggy style. A man get a much different sensation on his penis in this position.
24. Try the spoons position, have your man lay behind you and enter you either vaginally or anally. Curling your knees up in this position can also have mind blowing effects.
25. The spoons position can also be used for mutual masturbation. Placing your penis between her thighs and rubbing back and forth is sure to excite you both, you will be rubbing against her clitoris as you do this.
Table Manners and Sex!
26. Bring food items into your erotic experience. Sweet sticky items like chocolate sauce and honey are great. Try licking a lollipop and then rubbing it up and down his penis then licking it off.
27. Fruit is also an exotic sex addition. Fresh mangoes can be rubbed on each other. Strawberries can be fed to each other.
28. Try this sexy little bedroom game. Paint 12 squares on your man’s body. Number each square and then put a different item of food in each square. Get him to call out a number and then you have to eat that item without using your hands.
29. One of the most phallic looking vegetables has to be the cucumber and if you have an extremely cold cucumber, the effects on both you and your partner are unimaginable.
30. Alcohol is also a great sex tool, and no, not drinking it. Bubbly champagne tickles if poured on a naked body.
31. Instead of the old usual sliding ice cubes up and down each others body, why not use frozen fruit instead? This will leave a sweet sticky trail for your tongue to follow.
32. A good chocolate is better than sex? There is something in this saying as chocolate has a range of chemicals in it which leave a lot of people in a state of bliss. Cheese also surprisingly has a lot of similar chemicals in it. These should definitely be included.
Bonus Suggestion Try and add another sex partner but know this, it could lead to problems.
33. If you want your man ready to go first thing in the morning for an early session, give him a good kick start with cereal with almonds and lots of apples, it really works!
34. One of the best mood setting foods out there has to be avocado.
35. Champagne was mentioned before as something to pour over your lover but it is also good as an aphrodisiac when drinking it. The taste of a kiss with champagne is wonderful as your tongue tingles when you drink it making your tongue extra sensitive.
36. Make sure you always have some breath mints close at hand, as you never know when the need will arise.
Unleash Passion
37. Most men love it when their woman masturbates them, but make sure you always ask him exactly what he wants. It might surprise you to find most men like their penises to be held very tightly during this.
38. Try giving your man a thrill be deep throating him. This takes a bit of practice but can be enjoyable for you both. Place yourself on your knees in f
39. Most women wont know how to deep throat you or will have had bad experiences in the past. Be patient and if she really doesn’t like it, try just rubbing the head of your penis on the roof of her mouth.
40. A lot of women think that a man likes to have his penis licked up and down like a lolly. This isn’t always the case and if it is something you will have to tell her how you want it.
41. Just sucking up and down on your man’s penis can actually be quite boring for him, try rubbing the base of his cock with your hand as you suck away on the head.
42. Mood music is what is called for. This will help you both relax and focus completely on each other, and will help him get more satisfaction out of what you are doing to him.
43. If you like having your anus explored, don’t be afraid to ask. If your lady is a little put off by this, try using a slim vibrator, dildo, anal toy or even a candle. Have your lady give you oral sex as she slowly inserts the item into your anus.
44. Watching pornography during sex can be beneficial to both parties. You can both learn new positions to try and it is a good way to get each other highly excited.
Carnal Pleasures – Animal Positions
45. Gorillas do it. But these great animals spend very little time on the real sexual penetration part of it. They do have a very long foreplay usually spent grooming each other. This is a ritual you can do too. Have a bath, wash each others back and so on. You will soon feel the heat coming on!
46. One animal that can teach us all a lesson or two is the seal. Seals have been known to be quite aggressive when having sex; they will actually bite each other. Today, biting has been scientifically proven to be a great sex precursor, because it stimulates blood into the area and makes it more sexually receptive. So, try some gentle biting.
47. And you could always talk about the giant water bug, the male of which can go for as much as a day and a half without stopping! A day and a half of non stop sex? WOW
Get deep into Your Man’s Mind
48. . When you are using the woman on top position, do a little extra maneuver. Instead of just going up and down as most women do, try going diagonally and sideways as well. This will be really great for your man and you will feel him more inside you. Try it!
49. Use a quick drying alcohol such as vodka . When you are in the mood for sex, take a drink of it and then lick him on the nipples and the nape of his neck. Allow the vodka to dry. You can assist the whole thing by lightly blowing air on it. He will enjoy this to no end.
50. If your lady is quite shy in the bedroom, have her stand behind you and press herself up against you, slowly guide her hands over your body, ending with her hands around your penis and show her how to masturbate you. she will find this much easier.
51. The classic girl wrap position is always a sure hit. You have to be a bit athletic for it but it is worth the effort; you can allow your man to penetrate you fully.
52. Ask your lady to keep an item of clothing on, this can lead to huge suspense. Maybe she leaves on an item of underwear or a pair of high heel shoes or boots. Maybe suggest she give you a little striptease and then you tell her to stop before she strips it all off.
53. Another , very nice for you to do is to give him a nice little licking when he is still limp. Just go down and give him some gentle swirls of your tongue and see how he hardens up. This is a great prelude to a wonderful sexual episode. Plus, it will give you more confidence that you can make your man hard with just a few simple maneuvers.
54. If you want great sexual experiences every time, you will have to work on it. Try some vaginal exercises known as kegels. These exercises make the muscles in your vaginal area tighter, which means a much better sexual experience for both of you.
55. Ben-Wa balls are not mere sex toys. If used regularly, your lady can actually make her vagina much harder, tighter and sexier.
56. When your lady is performing oral sex, don’t just allow her to please you p with her mouth. The peripheral things that she does are also important. You should use have her use her hands as well. Get her to stimulate your nipples and prostate while she is sucking you. No man can resist that.
57. Masturbation and oral sex are extremely important when you cannot have penetrative sex, such as when your partner is pregnant or going through her periods. Try looking up new ways for stimulating your partner with such techniques.
58. It really is a myth that women can orgasm only when they are penetrated. Penetration is actually not important . A man can easily stimulate her G spot or clitoris and bring her to climax. Try educating yourself on how to do this.
59. Underwear can be used for more than one reason. Try tying her panties or stocking around the base of your penis like a cock ring. Get your lady to tighten it more and more as she performs oral sex on you.
60. Kinky is wonderful for most people. Why not give it a try?. Tie your man up, and tease him all over. If he doesn’t like that, you could just hold him by the wrists and have him to yourself, just as you want it.
61. When performing oral sex on your lady, the correct way is to swirl your tongue in the opening of her vagina and then slide your tongue upwards and flick it over the clitoris, some women also enjoy having their labia sucked.
62. Try making love in front of a mirror, the heightened sensation of watching yourself and your partner in the act is mind blowing.
63. You could go all out and try recording the whole thing on a camera as well. Just the idea that you are making your own porn movie makes most people come.
64. A wonderful position for oral sex on a female is to have her lay on her side and raise one leg in the air.
65. Why not massage each other with oil and then slip slide all over each other?
66. Find your lady’s G-Spot. The easiest way to explain it is if you slide your finger inside her vagina and then crook your finger back towards you, you will feel a rough little bumpy mound. That is the G-Spot
67. Do the dishes naked. And ask your man to go about his normal routine naked too. You won’t know how much you are turning on your partner when you are doing this.
68. Choose the right clothes and the right ambiance. Put on some sexy lingerie, something that your partner hasn’t seen you in before. Then enjoy a candlelit dinner . When he comes over, give him a surprise. It should set the right mood for a night full of fun.
69. Foreplay is the most important part of sex, playing with each other sets you both up for a great night.
70. Use every sense that you have been given to enjoy your partner, the sense of sight, the sense of smell, the sense of taste and the sense of touch.
71. Treat your man to a nice smooth you, have your pubic hair shaved or waxed off.
72. Close body contact with each other is going to lead to the most erotic experiences. Learn every little thing you man likes and needs and teach him the same thing about you. Explore each other with passion.
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